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I wish I cared less: The Art of letting life be

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   When I was in school, I feared public speaking to death because I was not well versed in English. Most of the time I didn't get a chance to speak because our class was so large. But when nothing else worked out, I had to speak. Things often got worse. I worried like hell. I could not focus on other things for the time being. Along with this, another matter of concern was “my image”. If I fumbled or couldn't speak well, how would I face my teachers and classmates? Now I wonder, what a stupid person I was? How under confident I was? I worried about the things that are just a cakewalk for most of you and for me now.  What if I had been a little more confident? How much stress could I have avoided in my childhood?  Now I understand that it was all in my imagination ... .Instead of worrying, I could have focused on improving my English speaking. Sometimes I wish I could go back in time and speak the way I do today? But, I know I can't. As the time and that platform a...
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Poem: Oh My Dear Future

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Oh my dear future,  I came in the rain to find you,  I got all wet for you,  I came barefoot,  But I couldn't find you,  As you live in my imagination.  Oh my dear future,  I crossed the ocean to catch you,  I crossed the forest to search you,  But I couldn't succeed,  As you live in disguise.  Oh my dear future,  I get lost in overthinking to track you,  I fight with myself to make you, But I can't succeed,  As you live far away.  Oh my dear future,  I sacrifice my present to bring you,  I invest my energy to create you,  But I can't welcome you,  As you take too long to come.  Oh my dear future,  I lost all my friends for you,  I lost all adventure to direct you,  But still, you get lost,  As you find your own path.  Oh my dear future, Oh my dear future.  You only live in my imagination.  Read more : I am the wanderer  
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I choose to forgive myself for everything I did wrong in my life

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  Sometimes our lives become unbearable, not because we have so many hardships or because we failed in life but because we remain stuck in the past, and do not give life the opportunity to thrive again.  That's why, from today onwards, I choose to forgive myself for the wrongs I did to myself, to my dreams and most importantly, to my present.  - I choose to forgive myself for my old mistakes.   - I choose to forgive myself for considering one bad chapter as the end of my story.  - I choose to forgive myself for “ Staying too long in pain.” - I choose to forgive myself “ Comparing my life with others.” - I choose to forgive myself for walking on the path that others carved out for me.  - I choose to forgive myself for “searching for the life in my past.” - I choose to forgive myself for associating my identity with my failures.  - I choose to forgive myself for holding grudges against myself.  - I choose to forgive myself for taking everything pers...
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How to Overcome Negative Thinking and Build a More Positive Life

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  Our thoughts shape our lives. Our thoughts are like a rulebook that we follow in our life. Our thoughts can be positive or negative, it all depends upon what we are feeding to our mind? What is our perception towards life or life events? Or in simple terms how we are processing life?  And I must say having negative thoughts is not bad at all. Rather negative thoughts are also an integral part of our thoughts process. We all know there is nothing called goody-goody in our lives.  But problems start occurring when our negative thinking overpower our positive thinking, it overpower everything we think, we feel and we do.  That's why it is important to recognize our negative thinking patterns, not let them overpower our positive thinking and our lives.  These are some basic patterns you can correct to build a more positive life.  1.Drop all your assumptions  What if things could have this way or that way? What if I fail in life?  What do others thi...
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I am the wanderer

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  I am the wanderer, seeking the unknown, I am an explorer, far from home.  I refuse to settle in a single place,  To taste the same flavors, or run the same race,  I won't grow stagnant where the crowd divide,  With the spirit of a wanderer burning inside.  We are given only one fleeting life to live,  With so many horizons and secrets to give,  I want to push past where the map must end,  With every new road acting as my friend.  Let me get lost in the world's wide embrace, Vanish completely without leaving a trace,  I want to wake up where the stars align,  To a brand new reality that is finally mine.  I am the wanderer, seeking the unknown,  I am an explorer, far from home.  The journey within: You know everything
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The Power of Positive Self Talk: Change Your Inner Voice, Transform Your Life

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  In our lives we are so busy that we rarely give attention to our everyday conversation with ourselves. These conversations are the one which shapes our perception towards life.  We rarely observe our conversation's tune, whether it is positive or negative? Whether it is supporting us in our lives, our goal and our relationship? Or just diverging us towards a negative thinking loop. And creating a barrier subconsciously to our growth and progress.  Our self-talk subconsciously draws the map of our lives. It sets our frequency to the actions that we want to perform. It sets our frequency to the emotions that we want to feel. In a way it sets our life's frequency to the way we want to live.  But many of us remain indifferent to it for our lives and spend our whole life in the negative self-talk loop. And we were never able to come out of it. We even become our biggest critic.  That's why… . . Take a pause, observe your conversation with yourself and make your inn...
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Drop Your Assumptions and Find Your Peace

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  “Peace begins where assumptions end, understanding begins.” Assumptions are the interpretation we believe or give to what we see? What we heard? And to what we observe? About the people, about the situations and more importantly about ourselves. It has nothing to do with reality. As it builds upon our quick observing and thinking process, without knowing the background of the particular situations or people.  Moreover, it is like the story building without knowing the facts. As it builds upon missing links or without background.  These missing links and the story without facts not only consumes so much of our mind but we also have to pay a huge cost for it. That is… our peace.  Our peace begins to disturbed when we believe in the stories that our mind creates. As we consider them as a universal truth or reality. Without knowing… that it is just one interpretation that our mind created. It can be the other way around.  Our assumptions create problems that may n...
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